I paid them whenever I praised her to others when I really wanted to slice away her reputation. Though you are no longer married to your ex, you are always your children’s father.
Those were the payments – but she never knew about them. Here are 10 ways to stay connected to your kids after divorce.
They are busy, they want cut to the chase information – are there custody issues? If custody will be an issue, be prepared that he will try to alienate your child from you with brainwashing.
subscriber writes, “I forgave her, but it took me a whole year and I had to forgive her in small sums over the 12 months.
Often the abuser who sees he is losing control will escalate the methods of control and abuse.
The lies will be bolder and he may manipulate with more intensity. Continued use of the legal system may now be available to him.
We are dealing with narcissists who are already damaged and primed to do battle. He or she may want to punish you and this can go on for a very long time.
Divorce and Narcissism are a difficult combination. In times of danger the best thing to do is prepare. I wrote in my book about divorce: The first thing my husband’s attorney asked him was “Shall I hit her over the head with a 2×4?