White boy dating black girl

And when these stereotypes are internalized and then manifested in society, it could have severe consequences.More often than not we are looked over for jobs, we do not receive adequate education or medical care, and we are imprisoned at much higher rates than our white counterparts all because blackness is rarely associated with positivity. Often, someone from a marginalized group is expected to be the authority on that group’s culture, but that’s an unreasonable expectation.I wish I could say that I’m surprised and appalled by the ignorance that white men tend to show when they approach me, but I’ve come to expect it.While white men are not the only group to hold racial biases and stereotypes against black women, they tend to be the least informed on the racialized and gendered issues that black women endure.

You should want to date a person because you like who they are and have compatible views and interests, not because their race is the next thing to do on your bucket list or because you were enthralled by their “exotic ways” (honestly, are you doing an anthropological study on black culture? If you answered no to these questions and you think those assumptions on black womanhood are downright absurd (hint: they are), then perhaps you are well on your way to showing a black woman that you want to date a complete person and not a stereotype!

Instead, remember that black women, like all people, have varying interests, backgrounds, and obstacles that they face daily.

Try to think of a black woman as an individual, and not as the chosen speaker for a whole diverse group.

To be blunt: White guys, you often approach black women in a harmful way.

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Most white men are unaware of the microaggressions towards their black partner that make their chances for a second date slim to none.One was a guy who was interested in talking to me, and the other was acting as his wingman.

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  2. eric   •  

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