A man may be able to put across a great image, but it could simply be a cover for hidden shortcomings, or he could just be totally faking it to 'get the girl.' Here are some ways to know if you've struck gold: 1) A real man values more than just your looks.
Is every compliment from him about a different body part?
No, not the guy who said all of these offensive things or treated a woman disrespectfully.
They blamed themselves—for choosing him, not ending it sooner, for texting him back when they should have remained silent, the list goes on.
But deep down you may have a nagging feeling that something just isn’t right.
While this article is written within a heterosexist frame, many of these same concerns can apply to same sex relationships as well. While it’s wonderful that women can approach and ask out a man without waiting for him to do it, there is also a delicate balance in the relationship. The investment factor seamlessly leads to an even more important type of initiative.Instead of letting his primate instincts prevail and beating his chest like an angry gorilla to scare off competition, a confident man will calmly make his position known, and understand that you're still going home with him at the end of the night. Nothing signifies an empty shell of a man more than someone who disrespects women, animals, or children.A real man will treat you with the respect that you deserve, never force you to do anything you're uncomfortable with, and never mistreat you.Be honest enough with yourself to walk away from any situation that is dangerous to you, physically or emotionally.
9) A real man will put effort into your relationship.I've made posts in the past about qualities of a gentleman, as well as the differences between a 'bad boy' and a jerk.